My Husband Flirts With Other Women - What Should I Do?

Recently, I received emails from wives asking about flirting issue. "My Husband blatantly flirts with other women in front of me, and I cannot stand it." Most of the time, it happens at places that they can socialize around such as parties or clubs. Most women say their husbands ignore them and spend the whole evening talking to another lady. It seems that the wife is not existed. What should you do about his flirting habit?

Tell him about this problem
Men or women enjoy looking at beautiful women or handsome men. If his behaviour is way too much, you have to let him know how unhappy his behaviour can make you feel. He may brush it off telling you how sensitive and paranoid you are. Justify the situation yourself, you have to differentiate if he is just only socializing or flirting around.

Let him know you are serious
If he doesn't care or take you seriously, make sure you find a chance to sit down and talk to him again. Tell him how deeply hurt you are when he flirts around with other women. Ask your husband to put himself in your shoes, ask him how he will feel if you start to flirt around with other men as well. If he says it doesn't bother him if you flirt around, just keep your emotions cool. Never show out your emotions by flaring or crying. Answer him very calmly that you will not accept his actions of flirting around and tell him to respect you if he still loves you.

Never utter a word again if he flirts again
You have already told him what he should do. If he flirts again in a party after your words, you have to act immediately with no more explanations. Instead of showing him an unhappy face or quarrel with him over this issue at the party, just walk off and leave the party. This is definitely a better way to scream, yell or nag at him. He will be stunned at your reactions like this and soon you will find him coming after you for another chance.

My husband flirts with other women will no longer be a big problem to your marriage as long as you know the right ways to deal with such cases.

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